120 Blessings

Last Spring semester of 2012 Women's Choir sang at graduation. I wasn't super thrilled to find out how I was going to spend that Friday night after finals and jury's. Being in the I-Center was much different than I had anticipated, though. I was so inspired by seeing all of the students accomplish this humongous goal that I wanted more than anything to be in their place, even though I was completely burnt out from the last 3 semesters and was contemplating taking a long break. I decided then that I would be there in those seats in one year. The last year was so hard. It wasn't even just school, it was everything. Even after a successful day, I would still feel upset that there wasn't enough time for me to do everything I wanted or needed to. We were looking for houses, were juggling several callings each, Dustin started up his company, and after so much heartache, we were contemplating on putting in our papers to adopt a baby with LDS social services. Then throw in full-time school.

But it wasn't until today that I realized I received more than I expected from all of those long, tearful prayers. I finished school with honors, our children are healthy and smart, we have a beautiful home with a beautiful yard, Dustin's company is doing exceptionally well (and he even got a fancy company truck last month!), and I'm 6 months pregnant with our new baby. Sometimes it takes a leap of faith. Sometimes you take minute and just look around and realize that you must have done something right to have received so much.

I got a tad emotional when my name was read and the Dean of Arts, Brother Brower (one of my favorite teachers) shook my hand and said, "I'm really proud of you, Erika. You've worked so hard."

I'm really going to miss this building! Especially the Snow Café.

 

 

I was so thankful for my family who came to support me and for those who encouraged me all along the way. I appreciated and loved reading through the nice messages that were written in the cards. While being a student was very difficult, it would have been impossible without help from my close family and friends who I love.

 

Now on to the next chapter...

 

Recital Recap

The recital went so well! I was happy with how I sounded and was extremely glad to even get through my French Ouvre ton Coeur song without any major mishaps! Allison played excellent and Lillie sang so sweet in the song I arranged. It was so nice to have so much support there from family and friends and the reception was beautiful and elegant. Thanks to my Mom and sister and Mother-in-law, we had homemade creampuffs, chocolate dipped strawberries, and sparkling cider. Julie even brought a beautiful bouquet of flowers for the centerpiece. What a perfect way to close this chapter!

We're being cliche again.

 I wanted to get Lillie some sparkle Toms for Kindergarten, I just didn't realize that I was going to be buying them today! Thanks to my awesome Sister-in-law, Alli who keeps up on all this stuff, I found out about a basically inspired sale on Zulily. For the price of 1 pair of Men's Tom's, I got all three kids a pair. Red is pretty gender-neutral, right?
I can't wait for the inevitable picture of them all wearing them together.

And I think that's the first time I've been able to say, "All three kids." It sounds good.

2 weeks!!

Okay, well it's actually 2 weeks and 2 days.

Fine.

It's 2 weeks and six days. But two weeks sounds better.

This insane, crazy, stressful chapter of my life will be over! I can NOT wait until graduation. I will have completed 101 credits since Fall 2011 and because I applied to the FastGrad program, the longest break I ever had was 2 1/2 weeks off between Fall and Winter semesters 2012. Usually I'm lucky if I can get a full week off between semesters. So umm... I'm not feeling pretty creative right now, but if someone could brainstorm a more effective, appropriate phrase other than burnt out ... that would pretty much sum up how I've been feeling lately. Actually, apathetic is also a good adjective. It's not like I need to keep up my scholarships anymore. And I sort of just don't care.

Here's my most frequent conversation lately:

So, Erika, what are you planning to do after you graduate?
What do I plan to do? I plan to stay home and be a full-time mother.
Oh... well good for you for still finishing school. (or something like that)

The average income for a female who graduated in Music, or who plans to teach music, is pretty much what you'd expect it to be.
Almost nothing.
But I didn't go to school with any career objectives. I studied things that I wanted to and that I was interested in and I learned many skills and a whole new knowledge base of information. I didn't just study "singing" as some people might assume (including my husband when I first started!), and actually, my voice lessons took up a total of 8 credits out of my 120. The rest were theory, composition, pedagogy, education, history, and social science classes.... and of course, 60 credits of generals.

I loved going back to school. There was never one day of school that I didn't feel was worthwhile.
But now it's over, and I am more than ready to finally be able to devote all my time to my family.
I love the short talk here from President Hinckley in 1996 when he said that it's nearly impossible to be a full-time mother and a full-time employee (or student, probably). I've also been really thinking about this short 2 minute clip lately, also.

So those are my plans. And I can't wait.