Did your mother teach you to send out thank you cards? I find it not only appropriate to send them for wedding gifts, shower gifts, but sometimes for Christmas and Birthday gifts. It seems like this practice is lessening. I was always taught to send a card for every significant gift given and to do it as soon as I could. I think it's a nice gesture of appreciation, and though I'm not giving a gift to
receive a thank you, I still think you should. Don't we all like
receiving a nice card in the mail to know that the recipiant appreciated it? A 25cent card that takes about 1 minute to write out and mail is the
least one could do to say thank you to someone
else's thought and time.
After all, I'm sure their generosity took more than 1 minute towards you.
I once met a lady in our Stake in
Las Vegas that, while laughing, told me and a group of ladies that she's never sent out one thank you card her entire life, including her wedding and both wedding and baby showers and gifts. Her "hilarious" excuse was that she directly told some of the givers thank you for the gift(s) in person or
texted them, and that the people shouldn't be giving to
receive a thank you card. Can you believe that? The other ladies I was standing with all glared at her- one even spoke up and said,
"That's very rude."Obviously not every gift is in need of a hand written thank you card. I'm not suggesting you buy a
costco-sized box of stationary and write out thank
you's to people who hold open doors at the mall or let you borrow a movie, I know I don't. But I'm sure we can all agree that sending a thank you card is never a bad idea, and that when in doubt, send one.
I know writing out and sending thank you cards is
tedious and tiring, but it's just what you do. You don't text,
facebook, call, or worse off, assume that by saying thank you at the time you've done enough- you send a thank you card. We're all busy, but
atleast someone wasn't too busy to go out, spend their hard-earned money, and buy you a gift!
Want to learn more about Thank You Note Etiquette? Check out the link.
http://www.thank-you-note-samples.com/sample-thank-you-notes.html